.However what Astrid does not realize but is a reality that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- who has 2 sons-- can easily vouch for: The fact that your relationship with your parents improvements and also develops as you each grow older, as well as perhaps for the better. "Your world facilities around [your children] when they are actually babies [as well as] it is actually a great deal job but charming," O'Hara points out. "Eventually, you really overlook that, since at that point you can not acquire them to do everything you want them to do, considering that they begin developing their personal minds, their very own point of views." And also inevitably, you wind up in the spot O'Hara, whose boys remain in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself now, able to learn from her children. "They're just such trendy youthful individuals," she mentions. "I am actually certainly not their pal, but I really love possessing chats with them and learning more about exactly how they deal with life.".